Into the Void

Death is a pervasive reality that impacts the life of every living person, often leading to denial, avoidance, and attempts to overcome it. In the end, we all must face death, as Dr. Tom Greening does in his new book of poems. Into the Void is a powerful collection of poems written by the eminent existential psychologist, Dr. Tom Greening. With his usual wit, humor, and honesty, Greening writes from his experience as he ages, facing his own declining health and mortality. Each poem reveals another layer of the experience of facing death. The honesty of Greening’s poems is a gift to all who read them. They are sure to bring laughter, sadness, and tears. But most importantly, they bring with them poignant wisdom that may help others in their own journey with their mortality.

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In this starkly honest yet poignant collection, Tom Greening shows once again the poetic power of illumination. For Tom unveils for us an intimacy that cannot be matched by theories or scientific reports; his heart and his gut are the investigators, and his pleas, cries, and bemusements are his findings.  We may not recognize it at first but Tom is giving voice not just to his own ungraspable trajectory but to the trajectory of every one of us as we age; and to the extent he elucidates that, he gives us all a little more light, a little more compassion, and a little more levity with which to carry on, and sometimes to thrive.

Kirk Schneider, PhD, author of Awakening to Awe and The Depolarizing of America: A Guidebook for Social Healing


 It is with honor and lamentation that I write these words. Dr. Greening once paved the way for me, simply by being himself and uttering the phrase “existential shattering.” I knew instantly that my life wouldn’t ever be the same and that his wisdom lit a torch on a path I would eventually walk. This book, with his beauty, humor, honesty and frank look at death, will also light a path and lead the way for so many of us who will eventually traverse the path Dr. Greening is currently walking. I imagine that someday, when I reach this point of my life, I will return to this book of poetry to find Dr. Greening, once again, ready to walk me home.

Lisa Xochitl Vallejos, PhD
President, The Humanitarian Alliance and Board Chair, Rocky Mountain Humanistic Counseling & Psychological Association


The raw honesty of his slow, struggling walk into the void (death) is a beautiful, yet painful dance between acceptance and rage. Through witty irreverence, sarcasm, and longing appreciation, Tom expresses his fatigue of aging and the feeling of being suspended somewhere between meaningful living with what time remains and being dead without knowing yet know it. The struggle is real; will you accept his invitation to accompany him, and yourself, to stare into the void?

Michael Moats, PsyD, Co-Editor, Capturing Shadows: Poetic Encounters Along the Path of Grief & Loss and Our Last Walk: Using Poetry for Grieving and Remembering Our Pets


From the moment we take our first breath, the Grim Reaper looms, chasing us through life as we desperately maneuver to outwit our finitude as if death itself is the antithesis of life. Into the Void cleverly embraces the vestiges of life as one move through the processes of ageing to in extremis. This book poetically expresses a much-needed antidote to the current fears of dying: It holds the promise of a creative and joyful humanism even till death us do part.

Nathaniel Granger, Jr., PsyD – Past President, Society for Humanistic Psychology (American Psychological Association, Division 32); Editor, University Professors Press


For 60 years, Tom has been a faithful steward to humanistic psychology, shaping the literature through his 38 year tenure as Editor-in-Chief of the Journal of Humanistic Psychology, and, during his half-century at Saybrook University, inspiring the minds and careers of several generations of graduate students who would go on to become some of the most impactful contributors to the field.  All along, Tom’s poetry has explicated his deeply lived and experienced journey. His prose has evoked so many disparate reactions over the years: depth of heartfelt and sincere emotional resonances, delight, joy, love, fear, terror, grief, frustration, and outright rejection—all of which Tom received and accepted in his role as provocateur and artist.  And now, in the twilight of his days, Tom continues to guide and inspire by sharing his poetic experiences of decline, decay, and impending death with his distinctive wit and wry humor, and with resistance, denial, and, ultimately, acceptance.  We are greatly indebted to Tom for his lifetime of lovingly shepherding the words and ideas of humanistic psychology since its inception.  Now his most personal words challenge us to face our ultimate destiny, our shared human fate with resolute awareness, courage, and serenity.

Shawn Rubin, PsyD
Clinical Professor of Psychology, George Washington University
Past-President, Society for Humanistic Psychology (APA Division 32
Past-Editor in Chief, Journal of Humanistic Psychology


As with the ancient and elegant tradition of Jisei, the Japanese Death poem, Tom Greening’s collection of verse, Into the Void, is a deeply personal farewell to life. Like his earlier works, the poet weaves together pithy observations with heartrending longings, for one more day in the light. The practice of Jisei is an effort to show one’s mind just as they are, at the very end. This is such a gift from a respected Elder in the lineage of our humanistic psychology tradition, to show us his existential mind, just as it is… near the very end.

Gina Belton PhD, Thanatologist and Psychology faculty at Saybrook University

Publication Date: October 31, 2020
Pages: 90
ISBN (print): 978-1-939686-70-1
ISBN (ebook): 978-1-939686-71-8

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Tom Greening studied psychology at Yale, the University of Vienna, and the University of Michigan, but didn’t learn much. Nevertheless, he has practiced psychotherapy in the same office for 50 years. He was Editor of the Journal of Humanistic Psychology for 35 years, and that may have affected his sanity. He is a clinical professor at UCLA and Professor Emeritus at Saybrook Graduate School. In college he read too much Chaucer, Pope, and Dryden, thereby becoming addicted to rhyming couplets. One of his narcissistic goals is to upstage Ogden Nash, while still paying tribute to him:

Cultures may crumble, titans may crash.
We’ll always have Paris, and dear Ogden Nash.

Dr. Greening has published numerous volumes of poetry, including Words Against the Void (Revised & Expanded Edition), Poems For and About Elders (Revised & Expanded Edition), Our Last Walk: Using Poetry for Remembering and Grieving Our Pets (co-edited with Louis Hoffman & Michael Moats), Nasreddin the Psychologist, and Animals I Have Known.

Introduction by Louis Hoffman

Poems

My Decline
Fix the Faulty Plan
I Do Not Plan to Age
Grim Poems
Let’s Fill the Void
Aging Jaunt
Another Day
What Has Become of Me
Will God Wake Up?
God Chose
Nuzzler
More Light
Challenge
Oblivion
Sliding Toward Senility
Downhill Ride
I Manage
Old
History Proceeds
Enseniled
Let Me Dawdle
Want Help?
A Comfy Way
Wake Up?
My Mundane Story
Surf is Up
I Flounder
Stark Prospects
I Dread to Know
Eluding Alzheimer
I’ll Count on You
Waning Days
Stay Alive?
Wangling
Denunciation
Reverse Time?
Objection to Dying
Stop Death
Bow Out with a Smile
When I’m Gone
Not Senile Yet
What Happened?
Lost Battle
Poem Fragments
Round Up the Poets
Clutching at Poetry
Poet’s Hope
Perhaps
Aging is Not Fun
Aging, Alas
Still Grumbling
Unexpected Death
Defying Fate
Grump
The Time Has Come
I’ve Not Died Yet
Rebel or Fold?
What I’ll Do
Stroke Antidote
Hurtling Toward Oblivion
Antiquated
Fighting Anomie
Improve My Fate
Loon’s Question
Where Was I?
Let’s Not Wait
Don’t Let Beauty Pass You By
Visit Me
How I Want to Die

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