Paperback: 178 pages
Published January 2, 2015
This moving book can change us; it should change us. It even shows how we can change ourselves—can open up, assume another’s shoes, find love not fear, and share our core humanity. It honors the sparkling diversity of life’s variety, in which we all, after all, are one. It is an added teaching tool helping us go further with cultural empathy, on our own or with our students.
Ruth Richards, MD, PhD
Faculty, Saybrook University
McLean Hospital and Harvard Medical School
Editor, Everyday Creativity and New Views of Human Nature
This book defines humanness. It embraces every aspect of life: the joy of parenting; the sorrow of parenting; the horror of war and intergenerational trauma; eating disorders and aging; privilege and second class citizenship. I wanted more.
Regina Walter, 4th Judicial District County Court Judge,
El Paso County, Colorado
Co-chair, Educating Children of Color Summit
Stay Awhile is a safe place where you will want to open yourself up to the possibilities for connection. You will laugh, cry, and genuinely be moved by the honesty contained within these pages. The poems bring to light the inherent subjectivity of our diverse human race in ways that are sensitive, inspiring, and phenomenological. The gravity of the poems is immediately apparent and it is magical to be welcomed into such deep, personal lessons that transcend the intersubjectivities that too often separate us.
Stay Awhile is an offering of love, of promise, of the truth-telling that is integral to healing on this journey called life. It is a demonstration of the type of empathy required for understanding those things we have not always experienced ourselves. The poets’ voices are simultaneously unique and similar, personal and political. This collection is for everyone.
Geneva Reynaga-Abiko, PhD
Director, Counseling Services
California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo
Stay Awhile is a collection of poignant “real life” poems written by culturally diverse psychologists, students of psychology, and other poets attuned to the human condition about their “encounters and struggles” arising from just being different. The poems are inspirational and educational for raising consciousness on cultural and diversity issues. The poets speak from their hearts, and the poems require listening with your hearts.
Krishna Kumar, PhD
Professor, West Chester University of Pennsylvania
President, Society for Humanistic Psychology (American Psychological Association, Division 32)
The teaching, training, and practice of clinical psychology throughout the United States has become overly rigid, narrow, and scientistic. This landmark book is an important counter to that dehumanizing trend and seeks to restore the richness and depths of diverse cultural experiences—with a respectful, empathic honoring of our collective struggles and suffering towards our potential for communal healing and growth. Many of the contributors are psychologists and therapists who, as a consequence of their forays into the lifeworlds of their clients, have been touched and sensitized to the hurt and hopelessness of discrimination, prejudice, and exclusion. By listening to the marginalized and neglected voices among us, as Stay Awhile does, we can come together in the spirit of renewed understanding of our shared pain. Then, we can work to rebuild our relationship with the world, and set a more loving and compassionate example for future generations. We owe the contributors of this book a debt of gratitude for sharing the depths of their souls, their courage in vulnerability, their strength to persevere, and their hope for a more just appreciation of the full spectrum of our humanity.
Shawn Rubin, PsyD
Editor, Journal of Humanistic Psychology